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Losing your virginity...by ~yumi-honamaru

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...doesn't make you a woman.

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Young girl: "i dont wanna wait tho..."

Me: "But it won't mean anything, you may as well be laying down with some soulless creature. lol"

Young girl: "hahaha very funny but i dont care i jus wanna lose my vurginety! i wanna be a woman"

Me: "...I don't think you should be losing anything you can't even spell..."

Girls these days all want to be grown before they're actually even 'grown'. Have sex, make babies, do whatever they want and think that not a single one of us 'gets it'.

Our system of education in schools and at home may as well be nearly nonexistent at this point. I hate watching shows like Maury on television because it reminds me how truly fucked up we are and how much we've failed to do a very basic thing...

Educate.

Preaching abstinence is like trying to preach the seven reasons why you shouldn't drink to an alcoholic. If they don't want to listen, if they don't want to learn or change then it may as well be going in one ear and out the other, and that's the problem, they don't want to really listen to what we have to say.

I think it has a lot to do with how we approach these topics and teach them. The whole 'don't do it because we say so' hasn't worked, isn't working now and never will work.

I think we should instead teach safe practice, hygiene, healthy body and self image, and most of all, respect. I believe in teaching these things will have a much better impact them simply teaching how babies are made and why they shouldn't have sex.

I also think parents should discuss these things from an early age and not beat around the bush about it. Of course you want to keep details that are age appropriate, but don't sugar coat things or make up stories. Babies don't come from storks or cabbage patches, seriously, these don't work anymore.

Not saying we should encourage either, but when they're learning more about sex through internet, television and the media then we've seriously failed somewhere.

Frankly, I don't give two flying shits about your comfort zone. If you didn't want to have to be in this sort of situation where you have to talk about sex with your twelve year old then you shouldn't have had kid(s) in the first place.

Education should begin at home.

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~I--ZeRaDiA--I Jun 9, 2013 New member

_{The only thing that girl lost was IQ points. :I
I had watched the Maury show and it's sickening as hell -but funny though- and everybody just wants to lose it because it'll make them more adult. Losing it doesn't make anybody an adult. A clean mind, big heart, and a sense of self respect does. ^_^ When little girls go out and whore themselves they are not respecting themselves.

And frankly 9 months later and so on when you have to drop out of school to take of your baby you're GONNA regret fucking everything. No literally you're going to regret FUCKING everything.}

~RoseNakahara May 24, 2013

abstinence is retarded......but apart from that i agree with the stamp

~granmotherpotter Mar 9, 2013 Professional General Artist

virtue I honor thee

~Yueishi Dec 22, 2012

having sex doesn'T make you a woman, the same way not having sex doesn'T make you a woman.
Having or not having sex won'T make you superior or with "higher morals" either. See how both sides are so subjective? You can easily find people supporting both sides, like people who say the "live life to the fullest" or people who call themselves "respectables" or with "morals"

The important is to not feel pressured to either do it or be guilted of doing it. Being pressured is the worst it can occur to someone's mind.
The important is to have a GOOD sex ed as it's proven (specially in wester europe) that a good sex ed actually decreases the number of teenage and unwanted pregnancies as well as people start their sexual lifes later. People reach maturity at different ages, so this is also something to keep in mind.

Education is the key, hiding about sex will only make children more curious.
Well, those are my opinions.

!Gray-Rose Dec 6, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

I agree and I think that we should teach them abstinence too. However, I think teaching them about the responsibilities and dangers is something we should do first. Let's face it, we have a huge problem in our society. And I keep saying this, if kids were more educated on this topic, you would be surprised how many of them would change their minds about losing their virginity ASAP. And I mean girls and boys.

~kara-li Nov 11, 2012 Student Writer

to true!

loosing the very thing that makes you a girl is what makes you a woman.

~Myoshi2011 Sep 28, 2012 Hobbyist Artisan Crafter

true. True.
I love being a virgin!!!

~InsatiableAddict Sep 5, 2012

Well said. Virgins, females in particular, don't realize the Pandora's Box that sex is.

~Oseltamivir Aug 27, 2012 Hobbyist Writer

I don't think people should be having sex until they've graduated from high school at least. And I don't think they should have kids until they're financially able to support them without their own parents' help.
I was a virgin until I was 19 and the reason I lost it was because I was sexually assulted. But since then I've grown closer to my boyfriend who is now my fiance. I consider my first time with him to be my real first time.

~LadySomnambule Jun 24, 2012 Hobbyist General Artist

amen to that. even i know that you'll never become mature by just having sex or getting pregnant. you'll become mature if and when you become wise enough to make smart decisions that you know you won't regret and avoid all the crap people do that will get you in trouble. i'm 17, and i'm still a virgin. i never dated, and i probably won't until i'm in college.
besides, i'd rather be a virgin than to get pregnant before getting married and then being stood up before the wedding day by the same person you had sex with prior to getting pregnant. and there's nothing worse than being pressured to have an abortion either. premarital sex is just sick and wrong.

plus kids need to know this: Sex =/= Love.

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